The Secret Word That Gets Men Into Relationships Almost Instantly, According to Relationship Expert | James Allen Hanrahan

You know he wants you. He can’t keep his hands off you and tries to rip your clothes off. You’ll usually be flattered by this, but you may be looking for something more than just a physical relationship.

However, you’ve been down this road before and you know that taking your clothes off doesn’t lead to commitment, in fact it usually results in the guy never calling again. Before you decide, “What the hell, what’s another hayride?” I want to suggest you to use one secret word that makes a man act quickly.

I’m not saying you won’t meet resistance. You should be comfortable with this. Moreover, you should also use this word at the right time.

So when is the right time? The right time is when he wants to be intimate with you. I’ll be specific because if you’re just kissing, now is not the right time. As soon as he wants intimacy with you, you will be ready to hear the magic word.

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The secret word that makes men take action almost instantly: to.

You may ask: “Before? James, what’s up?” Well, it depends on where you are.

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For example, let’s say you just met a cute guy at a club. You’ve been dancing all night and he wants to go home with you. You’re kissing in the car when he invites you to the proverbial “your house or mine.”

That’s when “bye” comes to the rescue. For example: “I like you and I appreciate you inviting me over or to your place. However, I don’t feel comfortable doing this until I get to know you better. What do you think?

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Using the word “bye” allows you to make him wait for you and let the man know that you like him.

It also assumes that you have boundaries and requirements, and what those boundaries and requirements are. A man commits when he realizes that he cares about how you feel, respects what you think, and is willing to negotiate with you. “Bye” allows you to set a standard that he can follow.

This takes you out of the dating category and into the serious relationship category. A 2019 study confirms that maintaining standards when dating can help you build healthy relationships in the future.

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Once a man agrees to take the time to get to know you, he is on the path to committing to you.

And if he decides not to do this, then you can be sure and know that this is not the type of man you want to have a serious relationship with.

Most men also prefer to wait before getting intimate, according to the Pew Research Center.

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James Allen Hanrahan is a dating and relationship coach for women based in Los Angeles. He is also the author Life of love And Dating Tips for Alpha Women.