Sean “Diddy” Combs’ parties reportedly had a “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy on the ages of women in attendance.

Sean “Diddy” Combs’ infamous parties reportedly had strict rules for women. A party planner who worked with him argued that women should be a certain weight, look a certain way, and follow a certain dress code. The parties were reported to be less picky about the age of the women. According to a party organizer, when it came to letting young women in, they had a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy.

Sean “Diddy” Combs’ parties reportedly welcomed underage guests

A party planner who worked with Diddy in 2004 and 2005 revealed a number of standards they held to the women who attended.

“No sagging, no cellulite. Not overly pierced or tattooed. No short hair,” the party organizer told the New York Post. “And the girls had to be young and hot.”

Although the rules for women’s appearance were strict, they asked few questions about the age of party guests. The party organizer said she knew some of the girls were underage but assumed it was due to alcohol.

“It was don’t ask, don’t tell,” she said. “I was very young myself at the time and honestly thought we weren’t asking their ages because of the drinking laws… I never stayed in the Freak Offs and had no idea that these girls were expected to have sex with people. »

His lawyer denied the allegations of assault against Diddy.

“The truth will prevail in court: Mr. Combs has never sexually abused anyone, adult or minor, male or female.”

Sean “Diddy” Combs’ parties sometimes included children

Although Diddy’s events allegedly included underage attendees, some guests brought their children. He would make an announcement to the group when he wanted the kids to leave.

“The children have an hour left. Get comfortable kids, because after this you have to go. This is the end for you,” he announced to the party (via Vulture). “Because this thing is turning into something you’ll all want to come to when you’re older.”

It is reported that after a certain hour the parties swapped places. According to one source, even some celebrities left early to avoid it.

“What happened before 2 a.m. pales in comparison to what happened at 5 a.m.,” a source told Us Weekly.

Another added that “the girls would start losing their clothes – that was a signal for people to leave.”

One participant recalled what it was like to be at his parties.

Only Fans model Sienna Grace attended the party at Diddy’s house. Although she said she didn’t witness anything untoward, she believes things would have turned out differently if children had not been present.

“Diddy brought a cake for his son’s birthday, but while he was at the party, he wasn’t really present and was just hanging around,” she told Dailymail.com. “I feel like if I hadn’t been there with the kids, things would have turned out differently. He would definitely try to approach me.”

She said she hadn’t heard anything about his partying until the recent news broke.

“I had never heard of Diddy’s parties until it all came out, which was quite shocking,” she said.

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